Meet Your Match at
Kendal's Speed Dating Events
FAQs
What is speed dating?
Speed dating is a social event designed to allow single people to meet and find a potential romantic match. It was first devised in 1998 by Rabbi Yaacov Deyo to help single people assess romantic potential more quickly and easily than through traditional or online dating. Despite the rise in popularity of dating apps, speed dating is still a fairly common way to meet new people especially for those who prefer to start with an in-person connection.
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How does it work?
Speed dating events work best with an equal number of men/women; therefore, tickets are pre-paid and spots are limited.
After you have booked and paid for your ticket, you are invited to a specific venue.
Arrive early to register and get your free drink.
Around 20 singles attend each event (10 of each sex). The ladies will find a seat and remain stationary while the gentlemen rotate to each of the tables for approximately 6-8 minute dates.
In this time, you ask questions and have a quick chat to see if you have anything in common and if there is any spark.
Pre-printed, fun, lighthearted questions will be available on the table to help get the conversations started in a fun way.
Pen and paper is also available should you want to make notes.
After dating, participants are encouraged to mingle and pursue potential connections.
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How long is each date?
Approximately 6-8 minutes per date is the perfect amount of time enabling you to meet numerous other like-minded singles in one night.
Dating for 6-8 minutes each, allows you to get to know someone briefly. Everyone is there to meet other people - just like you.
You have just enough time with each person to decide whether or not you would like to pursue further conversations or meetings.
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How many dates will I get?
As per our T&C's we aim for 10 men/women per night. The minimum that we will run is 6 people of each sex. Anything less than this, the event will cancel, and you will receive a full refund or credit to another event.
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​Will strangers be given my phone number?
Kendal's Speed Dating Events does not give out phone numbers or any other details of any participants to anyone.
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What should I wear?
There is no strict dress code in place; however, the general recommendation is to dress in 'Smart Casual' attire. For example, jeans and a smart shirt are appropriate for men. Ladies remain seated at the tables and do not rotate around during the dating. Consider dressing to impress. But above all - be yourself!
Wear what you are comfortable with but don't forget that first impressions count!
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How strict are the age groups?
The age groups for each event are a guide. If the age range, for example, is 20-30, then you are going to be out of place if you are in your forties and you probably won't get any interest.
However, if you are in your early thirties, are young at heart, then you are likely to have a successful enjoyable evening and hopefully meet the right person.
It is always best to drop us an email or call first to check to ensure that you are able to join the event that evening.
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How much does it cost and what's included?
Ticket prices range $30-$50, and include one free drink on arrival, professional hosting and dates. Occasionally, last-minute deals may be offered to selected customers to ensure there are even numbers of sexes on the night. Sometimes, KSDE will facilitate speed dating at a venue that offers their own unique terms and prices.
All you need to do is bring yourself.
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Can I cancel?
​Yes. Any refund requests 7+ days prior to the event can only be credited for another event.
Refund requests with less than 7 days notice cannot be accepted, refunded or processed.
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What Questions should I ask?
The best speed dating questions help you to work out whether you’re likely to be compatible - on a practical, intellectual and emotional basis. They also help you to stand out from the crowd and make a good first impression.
There are different types of questions.
Some are practical, to help you find out more about the other person’s lifestyle. Like asking what they did last weekend or describing a favorite holiday.
Others are hypothetical and help you understand how they think and dream, like who would play them in a movie, and if you could be a famous person for a day, who would it be.
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